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      <image:caption>Image - Kellie enjoying the beautiful Alhambra Gardens, a few years ago. A quiet moment of feeling peace, awe and wonder, …….. with an unexpected new friend.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Digital image, Kellie Stirling. Waiting for our friends by the clocks.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Digital Art, Kellie Stirling</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Digital art, Kellie Stirling</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Digital Art, Kellie Stirling</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Artist unknown, From Burning Man</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - The gifts of perfection- when it's no longer a survival strategy - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Digital Art, Kellie Stirling - Woman forged from fire</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Digital Art - Kellie Stirling, People thawing their freeze</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Fawning: why we mirror, merge and self-abandon - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Digital Art, Kellie Stirling. Woman merged with nature</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Things I have learned about meeting my edges</image:title>
      <image:caption>Connecting with my body has taught me when to rest, when to deepen and when to let go and shed. There is regenerative intelligence in going slower, what looks like retreat can often be fertile integration. My Winter season has taught me to trust the stillness. Spring, to let new growth emerge without forcing it. The tides, always the tides, to remind me that contraction and expansion belong to the same dance.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>“When you heal the wound in yourself, you heal the wound of generations before you and generations after you.” — Michael Meade</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>When women step into this new season of life, they expand into their social and relational power. This is the stage of eldership, where wisdom, creativity, and leadership can flourish.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2025-09-23</lastmod>
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      <image:caption>Artist unknown</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Art - Visions in Blue</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Art - Jonas Peterson</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Image - Stockcake</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Do you ever wonder why breakups physically hurt even when we are over the person? - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Digital Art - Kellie Stirling</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2025-08-05</lastmod>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Art - Giulia Rosa</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Digital image - Womb in the Sky, Kellie Stirling</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>"You are the medicine, the one who can transform the pain of your lineage into love and liberation." – Unknown</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>"At midlife, the call is not to climb higher, but to descend deeper — into the ground of the soul, into the roots of being, into the core of what is most genuine and lasting in us." — Michael Meade</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>“Your muse is the part of your that you have kept hidden away to belong or fit in. The Muse is the original essence of who we are. They reveals fears, taboos and expectations that need to be explored as this powerful transition unfolds. All those emotions repressed, feelings we have smoothed over, they want them released. As estrogen declines, a veil is lifted from our eyes. All the things we kept silent about we can longer ignore. We must speak up”. Midlife and Menopause ebook, Kellie Stirling</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>People think that intimacy is about sex. But intimacy is about truth. When you realise you can tell someone your truth, when you can show yourself to them, when you stand in front of the bare and their response it “you’re safe with me’ - that’s intimacy. Taylor Jenkins Reid</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>“Sex isn’t just about who we do and how we do them, and it it isn’t only about the ways we get aroused and orgasmic, either. Your sexuality goes to the heart of who you are. All of your relationships, not just your actively sexual ones, grow from this root. When I say ‘all of your relationships’ I mean that literally…including the most significant connection of all, your relationship you have with yourself. If you want to have better sex and more satisfying intimate relationships, the place to begin is with yourself - and more specifically, with your relationship to your own sexuality”. Sheri Winston, Women’s Anatomy of Arousal</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Women have another option. They can aspire to be wise, not merely nice; to be competent, not merely helpful; to be strong, not merely graceful; to be ambitious for themselves, not merely for themselves in relation to men and children. They can let themselves age naturally and without embarrassment, actively protesting and disobeying the conventions that stem from this society's double standard about ageing. Instead of being girls, girls as long as possible, who then age humiliatingly into middle-aged women, they can become women much earlier - and remain active adults, enjoying the long, erotic career of which women are capable, far longer. Women should allow their faces to show the lives they have lived. Women should tell the truth. Susan Sontag (1972)</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2024-03-14</lastmod>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>When you look at menopause from an integrative perspective, there is much more at play. In reality, the hormonal changes that provoke menopause and its symptoms are simultaneously fostering the development of new and intriguing neurological and mental skills - ones our society blatantly chooses to ignore. The hidden powers of the mind on menopause are the highlights that never make the headlines, powers that all women should be aware of. Such awareness leads to a new means of navigating menopause, and ultimately womanhood itself. P25 The Menopause Brain, Lisa Mosconi Phd</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2024-07-18</lastmod>
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      <image:caption>Spring is rebirth and renewal. The start of our menstrual cycle. It is both our teenage years, where we are discovering who we are with the support of our community around us and it is our post menopausal years where we start the second half our life. We know this as second spring.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Artwork by Gaia Orion</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Inner Seasons</image:title>
      <image:caption>Our Autumn season is when we harvest all the wisdom and experience of our life, let go of what we no longer need and birth new parts of ourselves so we can step into our wise woman power.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Inner Seasons - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2025-08-29</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Executive Coaching - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Executive Coaching - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2026-02-09</lastmod>
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    <lastmod>2026-02-09</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Relationship Coaching</image:title>
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      <image:title>Relationship Coaching</image:title>
      <image:caption>The tapestry of our lives is woven by everyone we come into contact with, with the most important relationships taking up the most space, colour and meaning. Jayson Gaddis, Getting to Zero, how to work through conflict in high stakes relationships.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>In conscious partnership there are many benefits.  One of those is that you accept the difficulty of creating a lasting love relationship.  In unconscious partnership, you believe that the way to have a good relationship is to pick the right partner.  In conscious partnership you realise you have to be the right partner. As you gain a more realistic view, you realise that a good relationship requires commitment, discipline, and the courage to grow and change; creating a fulfilling love relationship is hard work. Harville Hendrix, Getting the Love You Want</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2024-07-18</lastmod>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Midlife Masterclasses - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Midlife Masterclasses - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Midlife Masterclasses - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Midlife Masterclasses - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://www.kelliestirling.com/culture-change</loc>
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    <lastmod>2025-06-30</lastmod>
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    <lastmod>2025-06-11</lastmod>
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    <lastmod>2026-02-09</lastmod>
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